I’ve come to the conclusion that the majority of our disagreements are
Jen’s fault the result of each of us impeding on the other’s time.
Oh you have softball tonight? Well I wanted to go out to eat instead.
You’re going antiquing this weekend? I was going to work on my web site.
We’re going to your family’s house again?!
It’s just one of the many ways our personal selfishness is revealed through marriage.
I don’t really think there’s a fix to this problem or a tried-and-true remedy for the ailment of feeling lonely all the time, but here’s what Jen and I decided on…
As most of you know, I’ve been rather busy running my OSU web site (it’s a second job really) and because of this our time together is sporadic at best. So we walked through my weekly schedule, hour by hour (literally), and blocked off time that’s just Kyle and Jen time. No writing, no reading, just being with each other and cultivating relationship.
And it’s been outstanding – to be intentional with your time to grow in the Lord with your spouse.
Of course we’re also only on day 2 so get back to me in a week, we’ll probably be in the midst of another Zeb incident.